Being in love with someone is just a fun thing to do, it's not a mandatory item on the checklist of life.
So slow down. And when you find yourself in love remember to have fun with it. Otherwise you think it's something you need and you must have it a certain way, upheld to a certain image, and then you create codependency and conditional terms for your happiness to exist within the relationship and you start stopping the fun that being in love is supposed to be. ~" Baby don't hurt me // no more "~ You're hurting yourself. Don't make others out to be the gate keepers of your happiness, or of your ability to love. They never are or can be. In love for no reason is the best reason to be in love.
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I didn't really realize until mid theatrical finish that I just sang the entirety of "Love Don't Cost a Thing" in the shower.
Not only am I surprised by the sheer brilliance of my improvisational skills with running water and the reciting of perfect lyrics, melody and tone but the message really was astonishing, twisted with a humorous telling of what our inner bean is telling us all day long. Love is free. Love turns into a lot of things, but all things start with and are born out of love. And that don't cost a thing. Just a little thought that feels good. "I'd rather use big words wrong than use little words all the time."
Or "I'd rather think big and far fetched thoughts often than think little, reasonable thoughts all the time." Or "I'd rather boldly attempt what excites me than execute willingly what eats at me." Same same. Others think it's socially and professionally detrimental; I just remind them of how wise I am and leave them in wonder as to how I've come to be this way. Hm?
Not to mention, all men of renown from epic periods such as the age we are in and those leaders of the renaissance ring have all received guidance from ET's (or non-physical beings) as such. You think Jesus was alone in that dessert hommie? You think genetic tweaking didn't go down on the Christ body to balance what that guy was doing with energy? You think any-body that harnesses energy like that hasn't got intel in the form of ET? You think that doesn't go down with you while you sleep hommie? Remembering it tho isn't always a necessity as awareness needs to be on par with readiness. You don't ask your kidneys what they did last night either. You wanna talk to some cool kat ET's tho? I know you do. Otherwise I'd not be writing this and you'd not be reading it. You're excited even. Awww shiiiiet. My inner bean tells me this of those, myself included, that want to chill consciously with other forms of intelligence, be they ET or non-physical. "You've got to dissolve what information has already been procured, prepared and processed into form for you in the obvious works and examples around you before you're apt to make extracting knowledge from conscious ET communication a viable, relevant option for you. Path of least resistance prevails, and you control the resistance of your path. If you are looking for answers and find them not, if you hear nothing back, try smelling for them, tasting for them and feeling for them. This multidimensional wrapping of your senses thru focus will collapse what you seek into readily perceivable, tangible symbols representing what you want. You'll identify them by the excitement you feel and will receive all that is necessary. If you do not attain instant receiving as you may like to it is because what you seek is already under your nose. Wake up your senses. Invigorate yourself with knowing. Liven your perception with appreciation. Sharpen your smarts by smiling as art. Bring in more awareness so that you might see in broader, vivid scope. Be light so that your perspective pans and sweeps are bountiful. Be loose so that your experience might be lucid, lush and rich. Be present in clear state to ready yourself for catching what's sought as it flutters by. Be still so that it may find you." —Inner Bean Having a coffee date with me.. you know, the typical temple where I extract most all my brilliance.
Here's what I told myself over a long black. "You just have to be a really good seller Daniel. You have to really sell yourself on the whole notion that you're a limitless being of consciousness that's expressed in a body to see what itself looks like from a physical perspective. Everything you see IS consciousness but not only that, it is all Your consciousness. It is all within your consciousness, including your physical body. You dove into a vast pool of yourself with a body made of yourself and are exploring the depths of yourself. There is nothing else. You are all that is seeing itself from the perspective of a human. You've got to be sold on that. Generally sold on that. Defaulted to that baseline. You have to whisper it to yourself softly before you fall asleep and laugh about it gently as you awaken in the morning. You cannot blend with this powerfully advantageous knowing if you are not chilled out enough to accept it over-all. You cannot dissect it before you've accepted it. Just get the notion down. Just soak in the idea. Think about the implications of that truth. Saturate yourself in this understanding. Only after you've concluded for yourself that you are indeed an eternal being, an indestructible being, a powerful creator being, a non-physical being can you ever begin any satisfying dissection or conscious exploration of what that means for you in this temporary time/space experience of your whole. Don't jump on the band wagon of other thought leaders, their perspectives are soon to split. Find, by feeling, your own place and interpretations on the leading edge and practice blending with that perspective relative to wherever you are so that you will not split off and suffocate by your own oblivious veering of focus. This time and age isn't a discovery in the sense you think it is. It is all about discovering personal power not outside power; personal mastery not outside mastery. This is about producing, not amassing. It's about feeling experiences not speaking about them, or investigating them, or comparing them. That all happens, surley, but it's far from the forefront of your core intentions. You want to feel good. Out of all that's here and that you encounter as you explore you are to do one simple thing and that is to decide what feels good and to intend only those things and that direction and to choose, in all available breaths, what lights you up most in any and all moments in any and all of the varying degrees that you can feel that movement in the form of your brilliant emotional spectrum of guidance. Do only those things and say only those things, and discern by your standard not that of any other, engage with only those thoughts and things that you can feel are in resonance with the lightening like lighting up that your emotional senses are indicating to you, that which you feel to the core of your being as intuition. So slow down. Slow way down. Everything is being done on your behalf. You are not a working class creator. No creator is. The Universe does not accommodate it save for when you believe in those accommodations, then it accommodates you. You choose your own way of experience, you create your own reality. Don't believe those that choose it for their experience, yet tell them not of your ways. They will not understand and make muck of your clarity in their panting for that which you've come bearing. You are a powerful attractor of things thus realities that already ARE which are waiting for your coded whistle call so they can begin to make their way to you. That is all. You must play your part. You must relax into the kingdom you've come from and grown as a result of clarifying who you are while being here where you are. Be less involved in the lives of others, no matter their title or relation to you. Be self absorbed, or else you soak up vibrational patterning and debris from those you play with and pay attention to. So be discerning as you frolic. Orient in fun and play not with those who do not. Be so self absorbed that all things that come before you are boldly met with your decision to focus further or not rather than by a naive compulsion to investigate just because it showed up. Where you focus you are going Daniel. Don't let reality deceive you as you knew it would try. Laugh at this. Follow your bliss. Pursue what feels best to you. There is nothing ever wrong and you are never in peril, you are everlasting life and a creator being that chose very wisely this place and time of perspective reality experience. Your only purpose is to find joy in the physical world made manifest of your non-physical self. Conclude what you want and be it. Living this way will make you whole. Leave the program you've projected yourself into to run itself. It is well managed and upgraded. Steve Jobbs is here. It's run. Run yourself. The program reality will adjust to you personally and in absolute accordance to how you feel about yourself and all of it. You're not a hero, there is no need for such a one save for in story you might believe; and just because it is a physically told story does not make it any more an exception - you only experience physical story because you tell it in slight and curious thought then in greater detail until it becomes where you are. Relax." —Inner Bean The real question is.. "Am I a criminal for not caring if any other finds their happiness?"
If you know it exists, and it does, and it's a choice made easier in practice, and you make it, then in theory you wouldn't actually care who aligned with it. It exists. You act like it. You align with it. That's your practice. Really... honestly... who cares who does or does not choose happy. Why is that your burden? Oh, because you're looking at the them that's not choosing it... so you are not either then. See what they choose not to see, not for them - for You. Because that's what a happy person does, and if you can't hold that vision around them, leave. Or you're not choosing happiness and therefore it cannot be your experience. So shut the fuck up then. Whoever they are it cannot be your choice to practice happy for them.. just try = ) Then stop because you will never accomplish it for them. Just be happy, and don't apologize for or hide from choices that make you happy. Watch how many fires you start. But never let the soaking tears of another put out your flames. Let them be. You cannot help anyone for better when you approach seeing them at their worst. That goes against attraction laws dummy. And never feel bad for staying lit when others choose dim. Stay lit. Show them what the light looks like. Don't go out so they can feel better. That's so fucked up. But if you listen closely to them.. they'll convince you! So go, play, where it's easy to be happy. Go on then. Play. Conscious control of your reality is all in your mind, the continuity of your reality, and ultimately your mind, is all in your heart.
We do not want you to live more from the heart as you naively say - you cannot do that because all IS from the heart, we want you to operate fully from the only place you can ever truly live from, which is the mind, and just orient yourself dominantly from the heart; sculpt your thought in resonant accordance with the heart. That is all that one requires of himself to live his golden experience. This orient opens renewed avenues of thought that once practiced consistently into being shall become your heaven reality that is within lived as the physical reality that you are perceiving without. Now go play. Someone to me: "You know, I've gone thru great lengths on your behalf."
Me to someone: "That's funny, the Universe just brought you right to me." Your obedient diligence and contributing efforts don't mean "attention!" to someone who understands what a link, or a hook up, or a connection really is and how accessible they really are, all the time. Or, less cockily put: "When one door closes, another one opens, honey." I'm just so good at the turn around you swear my doors are french. That's the success mindset. That's natural creator mindset. Don't ever let the work that another does and discomforts themselves in doing, apparently or obviously for you, hold that grief over your head as a form of leverage. You don't need that, it's not natural and you don't owe anyone anything. Give yourself permission to tell power mongers to piss off. Your success will thank you for it. There is no game to play here other than the game you create and support yourself in. The only time it's true that there's a lack of something a person wants is when and if that person uses their keen observation of so many conditions which evidence the lack of what they want that they construct a vibrational holding tank for themselves and consequently box out any chances at accessing what they want.
If you don't have access to the vibration you just cannot access the manifestation. You're fickle with the frequency of abundance - you're fickle with the manifestation of abundance. You can't go after a manifestation that represents the vibration of what you want and have it satisfy you in compensation for what you really want and require - which is the vibrational essence; the feeling reality; the emotional experience. It's like taping sandwiches to your body and wondering why you're still hungry.. You have to create with your own signal offering, by your own emitting of solely the vibrations you prefer, not by hunting down and consuming manifestations that are symbolically or literally what you want. Altho consuming manifestations is part of all this awesomeness that is life, you'll just never have a pure taste of a manifestation if you haven't salivated in its vibration first, and you'll never have anything stay in your experience in any sort of stable way either. It's not what you're reaching for friends, it is so all about where you're reaching from. How do I feel, period? How can I improve how I feel, period? Ask and do this. And require less and less "things" to feel better. Get your power up by pumping yourself up emotionally, without the need or consuming of manifestations or actions - just use your own thought and imagination! This way of life isn't for the blessed or gifted - we are all blessed and gifted. This kind of life experience is for those that simply want it enough and make a game out of it enough and for those who realize it is of no benefit to consciously bring awareness to things as they Are but rather to how we deliberately see them As, because then that's how they Are! For you! Don't just look at things and people as if they're real. Make them real. As real as you'd like them to be. You do that by focus and degree of engagement. That's all. That's all folks! I'm right there with you honey, we're all a work in practice.
Firstly, you have to understand why what you have is what you have, and that's because you're offering a signal to the Universe by how you mostly feel or how you're mostly thinking and the Universe is giving you a life made mostly of that theme. Second, you have to not beat yourself up once you understand what I just said and are living unwanted experiences. It's ok. S'all good. You haven't been as in control of what you're putting out as you think. That's the third part, making peace with where you are. You have to admit that if you feel negatively about what you're living, where you're living, who you're living with, what your body's like or about anything else that unsatisfies or unsettles you you are offering a signal about all of that so you live and get more and more of all of that. You get in life how you feel about life. Law of Attraction is always on and you want to be and can be too, easily! So once you're ready to pull your hair out and runaway you're about ready to see a side of this practice that most let hang out in theory. Why? Because you have to be subtle in order to feel the vibrations you're offering to offer them on purpose to affect your reality. Cool? I often tell friends or coffee drinkers that if they've got a numb palate you probably don't like coffee. Conversely, if your palate is clean, clear, open and sensitive (totally trainable) then you're probably the one barking about how delicious all those ripples of notes and nuances of nut are in said coffee. You've got a taste for coffee because you can taste coffee. You've got to discernibly and intelligently taste vibration before you can acquire a proficient taste for vibration. Taste, in the case of vibration, meaning feel of course. Meaning, some people drink over extracted coffee and taste nothing; some people taste burnt coffee; some people smelllllll over extracted mother fucking coffee.. ahem. Ya dig? This is why I often recommend clearing your vibrational palate. You got excited didn't you? Good! It's exciting! How do you clear your vibrational palate you ask, so that you may discern vibration at the subtle stages of offering so that you can adjust so as to yield a different manifestation? Best question. Here's a really good answer. You have to become minimal you for a while. You've got to retract your watered down attention back into one of solid strength and of intelligence. You must get your focus re oriented so that you may cast it clear and maneuver it with utmost precision and clarity. How Dan, how?!? Oh, glad you asked. Well, since you're offering a vibration (a lot of different ones that make up one overall dominant frequency that equals YOU) which the Universe matches absolutely.. and since you're offering those vibrations that make up your total-focal-frequency, or point of attraction, because of what you're looking at and who you're listening to.... you may want to take a long vacation from as much of what you've got around you as you can. Well, at the very least until you can look at something unwanted and reeally tell by how you feel and what you're thinking that you're not contributing to the perpetuation of that thing, or circumstance, or person, or condition by offering a negative feeling vibration about any of it. What you want to be able to do, in practice, is to solidly orient yourself in such a way that you're able to be in or around the condition you don't want to be in or around (you are where you are honey, that's cool) and offer a vibration on purpose that is of the caliber you want to be offering. Therefore having not just a reaction but a deliberate response to your environment. Therefore not being helpless or lost or confused or a victim but an offerer of vibration --which is the determiner of your reality. Not another. Not a condition. You. Your mood. Your attitude. How you think. Your offering of a signal which is responded to in utter accuracy and equals what you get. It just takes a little while but not that long to really get the hang of this. That's why you have to get clear on how you feel, really, so you can really get a hold of where you're focusing so you can create your own preferred version of things. This is how you transform restrictive circumstance, by not resisting them --by re orienting your focus upon them or taking it off them completely. Now, I don't mean quit work and divorce partners and run away and stuff and such like that. Altho, I have done it and if you can, do it! But you don't have to, a lot of times this can be detrimental if you're not prepared, trust me. It just may look like the path of least resistance to run out the door but it often times really is not. Don't forget you want stability in all of this too. You want a smooth transition not a meltdown moment turned miraculous. But some of you fuckers really do like them roller coaster, so have your way - I'm just recommending an artful life approach, a practice of mastery. What I mean is tame your life, clear your fucking schedule. Bring it back. Meaning? Eliminate hang outs with friends that for the most part you find a struggle to feel on your toes and powerful around. Stop picking up your phone and talking to people about nothing good for long periods. Stop making plans and going out just to be "involved" and not alone. Stop talking and trying to teach what you don't know you don't know and just relax. Talk less. Talk less. Talk less. Talk LESS. For a while, just say as less you can. Trust me this alone will make you master. Say more with less by being deliberate about what you say and let the power of your deliberate and charged word be the explainer, not more word. Get outside and go for long long long ass walks. I don't even realize it but I often walk the streets of Toronto for 2 or 3 hours and I'm telling you the thoughts I think... get so refined because of the environment changes and my being in motion... it's just fucking brilliant and I cannot say enough about it. Drink heaps of water. This is essential when altering patterened frequency because water is so conducive of vibration. So more clear water in you = more clean vibrations to possibly generate. Chill out. Don't try and take this knowledge to the bank or to the support group you host. Jesus. Tame yourself. Remember you're clearing your palate here, don't claim notes in the coffee you aren't actually tasting - you're just creating a hallow experience for yourself and you'll feel it. Become a master at being minimal yet do still all of what you must to keep the wheels of your life turning. That's important. Really important. Just pull back your focus and only unleash it when you positively feel you ought to or are interested to. In other words, clear your vibrational palate. Do that by simply minimizing the manifestations you engage with so that you can practice what vibrations feel like and until you're able to see not the manifestation, tho there it is, but until you are able to see the manifestation and FEEL the vibration and make all your engaging be determined by your intelligent emotional understanding of what perpetuating that vibration will do in terms of coming manifestations rather than how the manifestation right there right now will serve. It's always about the vibration. Master that and the manifestation comes. Simple, now make it easy - try it out. That's it. |
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