Someone to me: "You know, I've gone thru great lengths on your behalf."
Me to someone: "That's funny, the Universe just brought you right to me." Your obedient diligence and contributing efforts don't mean "attention!" to someone who understands what a link, or a hook up, or a connection really is and how accessible they really are, all the time. Or, less cockily put: "When one door closes, another one opens, honey." I'm just so good at the turn around you swear my doors are french. That's the success mindset. That's natural creator mindset. Don't ever let the work that another does and discomforts themselves in doing, apparently or obviously for you, hold that grief over your head as a form of leverage. You don't need that, it's not natural and you don't owe anyone anything. Give yourself permission to tell power mongers to piss off. Your success will thank you for it. There is no game to play here other than the game you create and support yourself in.
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The only time it's true that there's a lack of something a person wants is when and if that person uses their keen observation of so many conditions which evidence the lack of what they want that they construct a vibrational holding tank for themselves and consequently box out any chances at accessing what they want.
If you don't have access to the vibration you just cannot access the manifestation. You're fickle with the frequency of abundance - you're fickle with the manifestation of abundance. You can't go after a manifestation that represents the vibration of what you want and have it satisfy you in compensation for what you really want and require - which is the vibrational essence; the feeling reality; the emotional experience. It's like taping sandwiches to your body and wondering why you're still hungry.. You have to create with your own signal offering, by your own emitting of solely the vibrations you prefer, not by hunting down and consuming manifestations that are symbolically or literally what you want. Altho consuming manifestations is part of all this awesomeness that is life, you'll just never have a pure taste of a manifestation if you haven't salivated in its vibration first, and you'll never have anything stay in your experience in any sort of stable way either. It's not what you're reaching for friends, it is so all about where you're reaching from. How do I feel, period? How can I improve how I feel, period? Ask and do this. And require less and less "things" to feel better. Get your power up by pumping yourself up emotionally, without the need or consuming of manifestations or actions - just use your own thought and imagination! This way of life isn't for the blessed or gifted - we are all blessed and gifted. This kind of life experience is for those that simply want it enough and make a game out of it enough and for those who realize it is of no benefit to consciously bring awareness to things as they Are but rather to how we deliberately see them As, because then that's how they Are! For you! Don't just look at things and people as if they're real. Make them real. As real as you'd like them to be. You do that by focus and degree of engagement. That's all. That's all folks! I'm right there with you honey, we're all a work in practice.
Firstly, you have to understand why what you have is what you have, and that's because you're offering a signal to the Universe by how you mostly feel or how you're mostly thinking and the Universe is giving you a life made mostly of that theme. Second, you have to not beat yourself up once you understand what I just said and are living unwanted experiences. It's ok. S'all good. You haven't been as in control of what you're putting out as you think. That's the third part, making peace with where you are. You have to admit that if you feel negatively about what you're living, where you're living, who you're living with, what your body's like or about anything else that unsatisfies or unsettles you you are offering a signal about all of that so you live and get more and more of all of that. You get in life how you feel about life. Law of Attraction is always on and you want to be and can be too, easily! So once you're ready to pull your hair out and runaway you're about ready to see a side of this practice that most let hang out in theory. Why? Because you have to be subtle in order to feel the vibrations you're offering to offer them on purpose to affect your reality. Cool? I often tell friends or coffee drinkers that if they've got a numb palate you probably don't like coffee. Conversely, if your palate is clean, clear, open and sensitive (totally trainable) then you're probably the one barking about how delicious all those ripples of notes and nuances of nut are in said coffee. You've got a taste for coffee because you can taste coffee. You've got to discernibly and intelligently taste vibration before you can acquire a proficient taste for vibration. Taste, in the case of vibration, meaning feel of course. Meaning, some people drink over extracted coffee and taste nothing; some people taste burnt coffee; some people smelllllll over extracted mother fucking coffee.. ahem. Ya dig? This is why I often recommend clearing your vibrational palate. You got excited didn't you? Good! It's exciting! How do you clear your vibrational palate you ask, so that you may discern vibration at the subtle stages of offering so that you can adjust so as to yield a different manifestation? Best question. Here's a really good answer. You have to become minimal you for a while. You've got to retract your watered down attention back into one of solid strength and of intelligence. You must get your focus re oriented so that you may cast it clear and maneuver it with utmost precision and clarity. How Dan, how?!? Oh, glad you asked. Well, since you're offering a vibration (a lot of different ones that make up one overall dominant frequency that equals YOU) which the Universe matches absolutely.. and since you're offering those vibrations that make up your total-focal-frequency, or point of attraction, because of what you're looking at and who you're listening to.... you may want to take a long vacation from as much of what you've got around you as you can. Well, at the very least until you can look at something unwanted and reeally tell by how you feel and what you're thinking that you're not contributing to the perpetuation of that thing, or circumstance, or person, or condition by offering a negative feeling vibration about any of it. What you want to be able to do, in practice, is to solidly orient yourself in such a way that you're able to be in or around the condition you don't want to be in or around (you are where you are honey, that's cool) and offer a vibration on purpose that is of the caliber you want to be offering. Therefore having not just a reaction but a deliberate response to your environment. Therefore not being helpless or lost or confused or a victim but an offerer of vibration --which is the determiner of your reality. Not another. Not a condition. You. Your mood. Your attitude. How you think. Your offering of a signal which is responded to in utter accuracy and equals what you get. It just takes a little while but not that long to really get the hang of this. That's why you have to get clear on how you feel, really, so you can really get a hold of where you're focusing so you can create your own preferred version of things. This is how you transform restrictive circumstance, by not resisting them --by re orienting your focus upon them or taking it off them completely. Now, I don't mean quit work and divorce partners and run away and stuff and such like that. Altho, I have done it and if you can, do it! But you don't have to, a lot of times this can be detrimental if you're not prepared, trust me. It just may look like the path of least resistance to run out the door but it often times really is not. Don't forget you want stability in all of this too. You want a smooth transition not a meltdown moment turned miraculous. But some of you fuckers really do like them roller coaster, so have your way - I'm just recommending an artful life approach, a practice of mastery. What I mean is tame your life, clear your fucking schedule. Bring it back. Meaning? Eliminate hang outs with friends that for the most part you find a struggle to feel on your toes and powerful around. Stop picking up your phone and talking to people about nothing good for long periods. Stop making plans and going out just to be "involved" and not alone. Stop talking and trying to teach what you don't know you don't know and just relax. Talk less. Talk less. Talk less. Talk LESS. For a while, just say as less you can. Trust me this alone will make you master. Say more with less by being deliberate about what you say and let the power of your deliberate and charged word be the explainer, not more word. Get outside and go for long long long ass walks. I don't even realize it but I often walk the streets of Toronto for 2 or 3 hours and I'm telling you the thoughts I think... get so refined because of the environment changes and my being in motion... it's just fucking brilliant and I cannot say enough about it. Drink heaps of water. This is essential when altering patterened frequency because water is so conducive of vibration. So more clear water in you = more clean vibrations to possibly generate. Chill out. Don't try and take this knowledge to the bank or to the support group you host. Jesus. Tame yourself. Remember you're clearing your palate here, don't claim notes in the coffee you aren't actually tasting - you're just creating a hallow experience for yourself and you'll feel it. Become a master at being minimal yet do still all of what you must to keep the wheels of your life turning. That's important. Really important. Just pull back your focus and only unleash it when you positively feel you ought to or are interested to. In other words, clear your vibrational palate. Do that by simply minimizing the manifestations you engage with so that you can practice what vibrations feel like and until you're able to see not the manifestation, tho there it is, but until you are able to see the manifestation and FEEL the vibration and make all your engaging be determined by your intelligent emotional understanding of what perpetuating that vibration will do in terms of coming manifestations rather than how the manifestation right there right now will serve. It's always about the vibration. Master that and the manifestation comes. Simple, now make it easy - try it out. That's it. You just cannot be around someone in dominant display of the frequency of inspiration and not translate that frequency into your own personal interpretation of inspiration.
That's called resonance. But your instrument is unique so your display of that resonant inspiration will present as whatever inspiration is to you. Isn't that just so fucking cool? And the only thing holding you apart from receiving resonance with those frequencies like inspiration is your attention upon other displays of frequencies that aren't in the vicinity of them, consequently leaving you apt to translate those other frequencies instead, and Law of Attraction is always bringing you more and more frequencies, mostly just like the ones you're translating. So it can be a bit sticky at first but your focus will curve and so too will Law of Attraction's response to your focus. You may serve yourself well by calling this a focusing curve, similar to your "learning curve" you so like to utilize in justification of resisted progression or sloppy focus. In other words, if you want to translate a particular frequency - like abundance - into and as your experience you must be keen in your attention giving, you must be sensitive to your your emotional translating center which is reading the labels of anything and everything you focus upon and uploading to you instant feedback as to whether or not it is a frequency that would be good for you to translate further, crystallize further, or not. So you've got to make a game of this or you'll drive yourself bonkers. You've got to do this gradually and you really want to because this way you really get the hang of it and you're really sure as to what frequencies you're translating therefore you'll be able to tell what's coming next physically. People will wonder how. You'll be in delight. Literally, you'll be in de light! Meaning, you'll be in translation of such higher and lighter frequencies that your experience must reflect that to you because you're re-rooting your reality and orienting it to be one of high vibrational integrity. Which is just a shift in perspective that is lead by emotional guidance over all else. So those good feeling frequencies you've been finding in anything and everything begin to become your actual anything and everything. As long as you keep that up. And that boys and girls is how energy becomes reality, how vibration becomes tangible and how YOU became and are becoming physical: it's all by translation of frequency into experiential reality. Experience is the only reality. And you are the tuner! Focus! Feel! Be! Don't accept your upset.
This isn't about them and you it's about you and who you really are and how much you're staying tru to yourself or not, and not tru to self for what someone else did isn't good enough. You should thank them. They're showing you where you're breaking point is. Now you've got an opportunity to practice emotional stability which you know is going to have big time benefits. Just don't lash out at them. It's not about them and you it's about you and You. Remember that. Back out, bow down, walk away - stay stable. That is the goal. If it's not going to happen at least crash with some integrity intact and just walk away - go play music or something. I guess you could say that this is about not getting angry, or when you are being able to snap out of it like you would just spit a food out that you didn't like. And when you do that after a while.. you become an emotional aficionado - you become master. And when that's your norm.. you just get everything you want, you powerful creator you. How do you line up energy?
You line up energy by pumping yourself up about what it is you want to align with. You practice the feeling and vision of the act successfully before you engage in actual action of it. In film we line up the shot, we block the scene - same thing - makes for a smooth production. Simple. Why? Ever hear the old saying that preparation is 99% of success? Tru dat. If you want the thing you want you have to dance with it in your imagination. You have to feel the feeling you'd actually have in your belly in that ideal scenario and hold that emotional note in order to queue up physical components for you to realize as opportunity, to act upon. Just don't be critical to the image in your mind. The Universe is smarter than you, it's got a more marinated situation it's unfolding for you. Just follow that emotional note wherever you find it, and when you can't seem to find it look for it in things where it is easily. But what you really want is to find it in yourself and imagination, the physical always changes and if you depend on that for the feeling it will buckle and blow away. Find it in your imagination and hold tru to expecting something like it or better is about to appear - maintain that state. Ignore anything that prevents you from reaching that state. People included. But if you must be somewhere or around someone use your imagination to help you find and hold that emotional note. Don't let your campfire diminish before you begin to gather more fire wood. Be proactive. Line up the energy. Practice the feeling. Utilize your imagination. Then get out there and watch what a magnet you really are for what you've trained yourself to attract! My favorite is when people are pretending to be happy, maybe they even believe it tho, and something comes by and frights them into damnation or uncontrollable disappointment or even anger.
It's hilarious. Only because, honey, you ain't where you were pretending to be. That was a little too quick of a drop for something so small to accomplish given how high happy actually is. You lie bitch. Nothing wrong with that but that's the kind of thing that has proper people saying "she's got no grace" and things of that nature. It's obvious. Like if you hire someone who lies about their qualification and it's apparent right away. Byeeeeee Felicia. If you're leaving your stability often and dropping the long way down you've got to admit you must not have been nailed where you thought you were. What will get you there then? Awareness. Subtle awareness and an eager to respond mind that will correct with action early on. That and expecting that the whole world around you has to be falling apart before you'll loose your shit. By not taking things personally to let them weigh you out of your stability. By staying out of people's business so as to not make theirs your own. By shutting up. Often times we babble on and on and on and fucking on when it should be way shorter a dialogue. But when you really want a clap from others boy will you ever beat things to death. You'll start explaining things to them and watch their attention and when it fleets you'll get louder and when they've had enough you'll resent that they didn't hear you out good enough... blah blah blahhhh. When you're so concerned with how your story is received and reacted to, more than the reasoning for telling the story and the quality thereof, you're setting up for irritation and the fall from the graceful space you only think you're performing from. Sometimes short dialogue is best. Sometimes explaining what you meant to be seen as a good person fucks it up. Sometimes looking into what others say is fucking up what you have access to. You realize I'm telling you to do the fuck out of yourself and leave everyone else alone ya? Leave them in their awful relationships. Leave their broke ass to get broker. Leave them to complain. Leave them to their despair. Leave them to their fear. Leave them to their weak minds. Leave them the fuck alone. Leave!! Yes I know. Harsh? That ain't right? Well if them where they are distracts you from your ability to connect to yourself FUCKING run!! Run from your friend, your sister, the situation, anything that blurs the focusing between you and your sense of personal power --blur. Don't give a fuck how it looks. Stop thinking that if you leave them now or do this that they'll tell you to go fuck yourself in your time of need. I promise you that you will never need their help if they're mostly that way anyway. A lot of times I'm asked that very question: "Daniel, what do you read and who is your guru?" My answer is me and my inner bean. I talk this way to myself. I coach myself. I sooth myself. I love myself. I uplift myself. I'm there for myself. I own My Self. Everyone else are just thought forms that you bring into greater clarity by attention to them - I'm just saying it would be in your highest interest to be a little, or a lot, more discerning with whom you brought more focus to, and to not feel any negative emotion over retracting attention from anyone. This is your life people. If you can't let people go because you're related to them or involved with them on too deep a level what you're really saying is, "I'm just going to choose struggle because I'd rather have this drama than a clear mind and a fresh experience, because I don't want people to hate me or think I'm a bad person". Omg who fucking careeeess. People gonna think, haters gonna hate.. blah blah blah. Be bold. Be you - boldy. You don't have to be blatantly forward all the time, no. You just have to be in knowing of what you want and in understanding of when and how to say no to those things that aren't in alignment with what you know and want. Often times that means bye to a lot of people. And that's so ok, exciting even! There are other people out there ready to fill space if it's a lover you want or a new friend or a new family. Be available to THEM and less available to the inconsistently happy ones you're sticking around just because you've been around them for a while. Fuck that. So, if you're really happy... If you're actually happy a bad experience at a coffee shop won't piss you off. If you're actually happy a debbie downer can't get you down. If you're actually happy an apparent lack of something doesn't convince you. If you're actually happy you're not hanging out with unhappy people. If you're actually happy you're feeling great about your day today and the rest ahead. If you're actually happy you're totally ok with choosing happy over not happy. If you're actually happy you're not easily convinced to be unhappy. If you're actually happy, you're actually happy. You cant fuck with that. Ask yourself, am I happy? Now milk that and fuck anyone who is not happy. And don't wrestle them into being happy just GO! Tell them to call you when their mood improves, or their optimism kicks in. And here's the kicker for you keen ones out there: STOP thinking unhappy people are somehow less than you! Stop avoiding unhappy people in disdain! Stop acting like unhappy people are shit that you need to point out stinks! Jesus. Get real. Just be happy and stay the fuck out of opinions about anybody else. Make the only opinion you fuel be the one about yourself and the others just be fun samples but nothing serious. Just be happy and stop making a fucking whaling out of it. It's a choice, one that anyone who makes will get better at making. Expectation is intention with eyes kept on the prize.
Not enough can be said for the act of setting intentions. What's your intention for the day? Even broad ones will do. Do you intend to have a great day at work? Do you intend to have improved relationship with your inner bean? Do you intend to be more tru to your emotional guidance more often? Do you intend to see more obvious ways in which everything is working out for you? Intentions are the casting of your energy, expectations are the means of reeling in what you've cast. So if you don't like what you've got in your basket ask yourself if you've even lined yourself up to receive anything. Ask yourself if you've intended a result. Ask yourself what type of results you expect. It's astonishing to me that people think good things come to those who don't intend and expect them on purpose. It's the only way. I expect to be full of energy all the time. I don't need to intend it anymore, instead I intend what to do with my expected body full of energy. See what I did there? I set intentions all the time, all day long. I always ask myself what I'm expecting - often times it turns into a clairvoyant affair. If you want any sustaining ability of good attractions or good feeling thoughts and emotions you've got to sustain your intentions to have them, and you've got to sustain an engaged stated of expecting them. Engaged meaning on your toes. Not panting like a puppy, but always in a state of wonder. Meaning, you're too light naturally to ever put up with not noticing if you were sinking. In other words, if you sense something that goes against your intentions or expectation nearing you quickly and subtly adjust yourself by reaffirming them. For most people writing them down is as powerful as it gets. I speak mine inside, and sometimes out. You have to admit that if you've got a sloppy situation or life has lost its twinkle for your eye that you are indeed not intending, meaning your expectations are weakly effective thus you get watered down abundance and well being as your experience. Don't intend things you don't believe or know already. Stay within your range of aliveness about the subject matter of your intentions. Don't treat expectations like requests that the Universe hears frivolously. Expect evidence of what you know and look for expansion from there. Let the Universe shower you one gentle degree hotter at a time. When you don't intend on purpose you're actually making life harder for yourself because you're not casting your energy ahead of you to prepare your way. So if you don't have time to intend and line up energy ahead of you you should stop complaining about when things go to shit for you, because that's why. As I like to say: What you philosophize for breakfast is the destiny of your day. Which makes this well intended note one scrumptious #breakfastphilosophy It's ridiculous that you'll let yourself get to the point of feeling total despair, utterly helpless and exaggeratedly tortured because you won't relinquish the stupid notion that you can actually change another persons behavior or life path or make them make choices that you think are better. It is absurd and absolutely every bit ridiculous.
But not if you know what I know. And you really do. You know how? It's always a battlefield experience and never feels like love when you're doing it. That's your indication that altho you may not know what I know in theory and practice, your soul knows and doesn't go there --for anybody; mother, brother, son, friend --ever, and when you take that departure from your soul and your own path of well being you always feel those horrible emotions, and all of them are completely unnecessary. But because you've built a life around dependency on other you'll have to take yourself out of the these situations pretty damn well altogether and for long enough before you'll be able to come clean off the drug of conditional love and have any real value to give anyone you care about. Or more importantly, yourself. You'll never help anyone and only rip yourself apart in trying if you see them or what they're doing as wrong, ever, or if you don't allow them their freedom of choice, even if they don't know better, and stay out of their business and stop proclaiming responsibility for their life for the not good enough reasons that they're your mother, son, sister, wife or whatever --especially when you're not even able to stand intelligently responsible with your own emotional state around them therefore render yourself unable to truly support them in the way you (and they) want to anyway. If you're irritated by them you're not in condition to serve them. If you're concerned for them you're not helping them. If you're worried about their choice making you're of no influence for better. If you're believing they're in need of your assistance you're of no value. If you can't hold to the image of them as well and able then you're making it worse. If you can't stop noticing their, by your standards, mistakes you're hurting them more. If you can't understand that they're dominantly alright and that there's no other place where they should be right now you're slapping them in the face. If you can't see that none of what they may be worried about or experiencing is wrong you've got no real worth to them. You just let yourself be so reactive to everything you can't make sense of anything. Everyone needs to just chill the fuck out, have a coffee and settle the fuck down. Everybody needs to chill out and get a pulse larger than a moments worth of their personal power so that any real change can be implemented and so that the journey can start to be sweet for you - not later but right fucking now. Stop it. Stop chronically doing things that feel off, credit yourself for having emotional guidance not condemn your burn from ignorant tolerance, stop wanting to eradicate things that you think are the cause of it all and realize that it's YOU and your Reaction to what you're looking at that is the cause, not the stuff that's getting your attention. So let it go. Give attention to something that feels better. It is the very emotions you're not paying attention to and that you're misinterpreting and neglecting which are at the core of all misunderstanding and unwanted experience. You're not taking them for what they are: guidance, not punishment or anything bad - guidance. Hot or cold. Yes or no. You just string it out into painful no's and colds. Stop being so weak minded. Care about your emotions more than anything else. Begin being a strong and sensitive feeler. Be bold and intelligent enough to curb yourself when you sense negative eruptions --back up! Better yet - catch it before the eruption. Chime in on your warning bells and release the thoughts before they solidify into furthermore experience. Stop breaking yourself down and calling it life you fucking freak, because it is far from life, and if you'd only just listen to the subtle tears and be more sensitive in your awareness of how you felt and you did something about it in the early stages you'd never have to go thru the torture of breaking down again, and you'd never have to toss off the blame on this or that or him or her, you would be free. Wake up and smell the fucking coffee folks. Or am I just the fucking freak? Maybe. But at least I'm having a ball. Invite yourself. Oh, and good fucking morning - you're welcome. Do some people just "get lucky"?
Or, are some people so prepared for what they want that they're inspired to spit the right words at the right time to the right people thus becoming a keystone axel to an already moving whole which is looking for just that what that personal brilliantly represents at just that time to make manifest a reared and ready idea, and consequently lucky people of all involved? Obvious answers. Succinctly: Some people just want what they want so much that they're willing to prepare themselves in exciting ways and engage in only lighted steps from a place of clarity and knowing which important people and non-people parts find irresistibly attractive by Law of Attraction thus then all involved "get lucky" as the Universe conspires beautifully to bring them all together in total compliment of one another, accenting each other and accentuating each other, just as they mother fucking expected. Take the excuse of luck out of it. Put the preparation into it. Step the fuck into it. —Success |
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