So here's a potentially provocative perspective, my prerogative.
Perhaps you're a coach, a teacher, a parent, a partner, a Lover, a friend, an employer, a superior, a stranger -- whoever you are, you Are. If you are a practicer of deliberate thinking you are thus then a conscious creator of your experiential reality because you have the advantage of selected thought. This is beautiful, delicious and wonder-filled when you work on yourself by yourself, perhaps in meditation, perhaps in the mirror, maybe while out in nature for a stroll. Where this roller coaster starts to give you butterflies tho is when you come face to face with another conscious, thinking being -- be they deliberate in thought or creating on default, you are now at the crux of a co-creative rendezvous. What an opportunity, right?! Well yes, absolutely. If you maintain your vibration of Joy and Eagerness to create yourself anew and allow that which you have chosen to be that which is risen. Sometimes, even for the avid clear-minder, this can take the slow track and even work as curbing of your practice. Nothing at all wrong with this either as this is the delicious mud you revel and drag your feet in with Ecstasy and thus then turn into the clay in which you ultimately mold yourself as. Your representation. Your shot and showing yourself -- foremost -- who You have come to Know You Are. The mud can be considered in metaphor the pudding therein which lies the proof. But at this moment of co-creation are we proving with proof, or acting a fool? When we engage in any inter-action with another it serves us well to first root ourselves (this can be done in a split moment) first with Who we have come to Know we Are -- our Inner-Action, as such. This inner-action is the choice point place from which we project our accepted Self unto the manifested scene, the person, the world. When we have practiced enough that which we have come to Know we are able to reflect that Knowing via our actions, from thought, word, movement, all the way down to our impulses at the cellular level -- re-patterned reflex's, as such. This can and does indeed make for a delicious inter-action for it is like eating the ripe fruit from our very own garden we have been caring for and tending too. That deliberate thinking and living on purpose we have been doing. Although we do indeed intend to be this way when we have the opportunity to share in an experience with others, it does not always go this way. At 'go-time', as it were, we often times tend to choke off our expression of choice by choking on the former. When we behold the presence of another being, especially that of another Human (animals are amazingly easy to be around, you may even dance in the nude and your pup or kitty will just stare in wonder and perhaps even partake if you are open enough!), we can have a surge of that fight or flight adrenaline rush throughout our bodies and that can cause us to not have such acute control over our expression. There is distortion, static, between that which we are sure of and have come to great Knowing about and what actually comes out in translation. Yikes. This is where going easy on yourself is most promising to your overall progression of Becoming That Which You Know You Are. So, go easy on yourself. This distorted translation -- actually it's right on the money, always is, it's just coming from some filters that you still have active within you (vision them as drapes that are dusty, allergy causing, and one of those check list things you meant to do a while back to spruce up your home). So what it really translates to is what I term Pity Passion. Now, while this term may sound abrasive it's very similar to the gear grinding discorded feelings you experience emotionally when you do not speak the truth of who you are and what you have come to Know clearly. Again, emotions are indicators, so you Know how to get right back on track -- should that be of utmost importance to you. And if you are a practicer of deliberate thinking I would say that this is your desire, yes? To get back into alignment with Who You Really Are and project that example clearly unto the world? I think-so; you Know-so. However we all have our moments of falling lower than that expectation, for we are all students of deliberate creation and we are all finding a balance we can work with to bring forth the most of who we Are here in this physical time-space reality. Fun fun, friends! So again, ease up on Self here. Where the Pity Passion comes into play is when we are participating in an interaction with another and we hit a subject or area or topic in which we have some conflicting beliefs or filters that urge us to not be so complacent or good feeling when we hear the contrary -- those beliefs want to live and continue to be so they thus then must defend themselves. This defense is not as malicious as you think. It is simply a current of force of a thought that was practiced and or conditioned long enough to have its own powerful pull -- its current, as such. You cannot buck this current head on -- would you put a raft in a raging river and saddle up with oars and expect to paddle up that river, against that current? No, friends. Resistance is futile. You would find it much easier to get in that raft and let the stream of flow take you downward, with ease and flow. Follow? Now, if you do not like that current, currently ie; you are paddling upstream ie; you are feeling the struggle or the discord via your emotional guidance system letting you Know with denser emotion.. then simply change streams. In essence, and this is the big one, what I mean here is create a new one. Create a new pattern of thought that is strong enough to withstand smaller currents -- the opinions of others and the what-is-ness of your reality. You can tell the strength of such a current based upon the emotions you feel when engaged or in the stream. Full throttle Knowing and Exhilaration, a-hoy~! Then nothing can stop you from extracting that feeling in the form of action AKA your words and conducted Self during any specific inter-action with any specific person, place or thing. Delicious Knowing this, yes? So in closing do not accept your less-than expression of what you Know, and in the same sense do not be hard on yourself. Take it as an opportunity to train, train as an Olympic athlete, let's say a swimmer would -- ironically, you both would benefit tremendously from deep breathing exercises and meditation ; ) Do not let someone else, or anything outside of you for that matter, get the best of you. Do not let someone's fragmented expression and where they currently are in the discovery of their Knowing of what and Who they Are fragment You. You are in control of the thoughts you think and therefore You are in control of the version of Reality you experience. So next time you are nodding your head and putting on a Pity Passion show -- simply do not. Do not accept your false movements and body gestures, do not accept listening on when you would rather not -- Knowing that the story you are hearing is beating the higher vibrational crap out of you and them -- give your attention to something else, like the birds outside, art on the wall, people in passing, nature around you, the phone ringing beside you, the washroom break that you have been meaning to take -- take it, give constructive feed back from your unconditional vibrational stance, do not accept when you see someone in your experience acting out of what you Know them to be -- simply turn the other cheek, or hold them to what you Know and accept nothing less from them. In some cases this may mean doing what we have just suggested, in short and sweet terms -- give your attention to something else immediately before the best is taken from you! Keep in mind this whole time that there is never any Assertion in this vibrational based Universe. There is only Attraction. Everyone will receive and rendezvous with the experiences that are necessary in their evolution and expansion to cause them to become what you may have found yourself as a result of collecting data, putting enough pieces together and testing enough of your faith to blossom and bask in the fruit of your absolute Knowing. Give them their time, appreciate where they are and thus then where you are as the observer of such magnificent creation from a vantage point, from a perspective, that is indeed Leading Edge of all Edges of this Universe. So do not accept anything less, and be gentile with others especially, and be kind to yourself when understanding that this is an incremental journey and that you are All Eternal Beings who can, when you Know this, relax into your faith, chill out in your Knowing, and revel in your Becoming. What an awesome ride. Remain true to who you have come to Know yourself to be, Be clear in your example of that expression, for all the world to see, Not because you have to or you must, But because you Love to drink from the stream of wellness so often, That you, well you've become a Lush! As Always, In-Joy~! Nenesso
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