It's time for a clarification friends.
I've been talking for as long as you've been reading about getting tuned in to a positive feeling emotional state and then doing what you need or want to do or then thinking about what's important to you. Tune in and then. Amp your vibe and then. Or else it just doesn't satisfy you all that much. And then you beat up on self and others in justification of the not measuring up to your desire. Let's augment that a little bit so that it's more tangible for you, and that you feel it more viscerally in terms of understanding what I mean by all of that. Let's use the analogy of dating; something y'all are quite familiar with, mostly. When you're on a date with someone and it's feeling good... you want to order another round..... you want to ask deeper questions........ you want to squeeze in closer....... you think about seeing them more..... you may even want to take them home right then and there that very night. That's momentum. You can feel the acclimation process and associate it with the person, or better said - the object of your attention. That's how you should base proceeding with whatever it is you're thinking about. You should be dating your thoughts. Notice when it's a bad date or not going so well and all you can think of is dumping. No, not that kind of dumping.. altho that's certainly a prime excuse to end the rendezvous! (*facepalm*) Meaning you wanna get out of there. Because you don't want any more depth of intimacy with that person, or that situation. And you can tell by how you feel. That's your emotional guidance, which is always working for you, always - never wrong. Now imagine going thru with it tho... because you just don't want loneliness... because you guys came all this way and ending it sooner is just politically rude..... or because you've been single and wanting to mingle for far too long so "how dare you" .... maybe you're clubbing yourself over the head by arguing that you're toooo picky and that you should give them more time to discover more....... no, you are not and no, you should not. You see, you just want it, whatever it is, so much so that you're willing to take what you can as it is and try and make it fit. The eff word..... Effort. Don't do it! You don't do that with shoes, do you? Unless you're familiar and ok with utilizing a bone saw. It's just that you aren't used to thinking that yes indeed you can indeed have what you want how you like it without efforting to position that thing you want into place. You're worth it. It's supposed to be easy. It's supposed to be fun. It's supposed to feel good, all the time. Are you letting it? Do you know what you need to know about how reality works to let it be so for you? You may want to start there, I recommend listening to some Abraham-Hicks, the best and most succinct source for this material. Now apply this to the thoughts you think, which in turn actually turn into the person you're dating. Meaning that's how they show up. They are a match to how you think and feel about relationships and come in response to show you what you've got goin' on just in case you want to tweak it for different, better, results. Can you imagine someone telling you to think something that conflicts with what you want to think, with how you want to feel? .... we all have done it. And it always feels shitty. Every single time. And that's because we're going against what our guidance (emotion) is indicating. We've been trained to do it. But ya don't have to now that you know what I'm telling you now. So date your thoughts. And don't just keep seeing a thought because it's assigned to you or because you want to fill the void of the feeling of lack. Make good relationships with your thoughts. Have happy relations with your thoughts. And give no more than a tinder swipe to those who don't do it for you, from the get go. And as you get good at this you will not question what you're thinking (even if a strong and logical reason is imposing them) and therefore you will be in full realization of your actions, choices and behaviors as the extensions of the state that you either choose deliberately or of the state that you let others and conditions around you assign to you. It just doesn't get any better than understanding that what you think and how you feel equals your point of attraction and that everything you're getting, from ideas and inspirations to traffic and bodily conditions, is in total response to that point of attraction - which you are in absolute control of. And you take that control by caring enough about how you feel to not keep seeing the thoughts that you're not that into anyway. Best dating advice ever.
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